Friday, October 08, 2004
went out wif my sayang todae.. tok a lot.. abt relationships.. the past.. the future.. n i realise some things which i juz dont haf any explanation for.. tat its hard for us females to reli understand guys.. n for guys to reli understand gerls.. i guess both genders dont reli express the same wae n tat we value different stuffs..
guys wud generally feel tat sumtimes we gerls can b ignorant.. tat they feel their gfs r nt there for them wen they reli need them n expect her to noe tat hes in some kind of problem or disturbance.. i guess, for gerls.. we haf a mindset tat if our bfs wan us to b der, then tell us.. its hard to reli noe wat exactly u guys r feeling cos most guys dont reli show any much difference wen they're sad.. nt tat we try to b ignorant, bt sumtimes we juz haf a hard time noeing wen our bfs r reli sad or wen hes juz stoning.. however, its true tat its hard to understand the males n tat i agree wif my sayang tats its nt easy for females to reli understand the males species.. for them they belief tat one can live without frens bt not without their gfs.. n they wud usually feel tat their gfs spend too much time wif their gerl frens.. n they will feel abandoned or neglected.. cos they cant understand wad frenships means to a gerl.. from my part, i believe tat even though i haf my sayang wif me, my frens are part n parcel of my life.. they r the peeps tat initially helped me thru.. guys wont see dis wae ar, tat whenever they cant be der for their gfs, frens wud b der for her.. frens wud advise her n console her.. n sumtimes theres juz a tight bond btw gerls in terms of frenships.. wadeva it is.. juz noe ur limits wif ur guy frens.. despite we gerls wanna b liberal n so.. bt still u gt to remember tat we r gerls n tat theres alwaes a limit as to hw we behave wen theres guys ard cos we're despite nt caring wad others will sae, pple will tok cock n its nt nice to hear nonsense.. hmmph.. tink abt it..
we tok lots bt the past.. lyk i saed to him.. i don care hw ur past was i juz wanna noe.. curiousity.. wadeva bad tat happens i wont condemn or feel disgusted by.. cos things hopefully wont repeat itself.. tings will change wif different pple tat u hang out wif.. sumtimes its hard to reli let go of the past, bt u haf to despite hw hard it is cos if u dont, then u'll juz stuck there forever n tat u'll be behind n u wont rlei understand the true meaning of happiness as u'll b hurt by ur past which u still din wanna let go.. one saed 'let go of wad's nt urs.. it was never meant to b urs in da first place'.. u'll find sumting betetr in future insyallah!
okie.. too much toking.. toodles~
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